In a large bowl, cream together 1 ⅓ cup sugar, 6 Tablespoons softened butter, 1 Tablespoon lemon rind, 3 Tablespoons thawed lemonade concentrate and 2 teaspoons vanilla. Beat with a mixer at medium speed until well blended (about 5 minutes). Add 2 eggs and 2 egg whites, 1 at a time, beating well after each addition. Lightly spoon flour into dry measuring cups; level with a knife. Combine 2 cups flour, 3 Tablespoons dry jello, 1 teaspoon baking powder, ½ teaspoon salt, and ½ teaspoon baking soda; stir well with a whisk. Add flour mixture and 1 ¼ cups buttermilk alternately to sugar mixture, beginning and ending with flour mixture; beat well after each addition.